" When Frued asked his classic question " What do women want?" he said it as though he thought it was some kind of top secret information that we chicks had, but just didn't feel like sharing. The problem is of course, that it is very difficult for us to know what we want. I mean, how could we? We are given so many conflicting messages about what is expected from us- what were supposed to look like(sexually agressive but sexually demure) what were supposed to do, and how often were supposed to do it.( a few fucks before marriage is okay as long as we really love the guy.)
When they say that women hit their sexual peak at thirty five, it's not hard to understand why. It takes us that long to figure out what the hell we want.
The message guys get is alot clearer. " I have a dick, therefore I fuck." is what most men are encouraged to believe. A male sex-advice columnist once remarked that " guys feel they have the right to whatever it is that gets them off," and it's true. Women on the other hand have a very hard time thinking this way. It's still the case that if you like having sex a lot, you're a whore, and if you don't, you're frigid.
To thing women are never encouraged to do is to focus on what actually makes us feel good....
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